Imagine you are a bus driver. A homeless person steps onto your bus barefoot. What would you do?
Just a few days ago, Jayne Arendt-Verhelst, a Minneapolis bus driver, faced this exact situation. When she saw a homeless woman enter her bus without shoes, Jayne didnโt just empathize with her plight or feel compassion.
She went a step further and broke a bus driverโs rule to give her own shoes to the woman, demonstrating a profound act of kindness.
This story reminds us that true kindness involves taking ACTION to help those in need, not just feeling and wanting to do something about their struggles.
๐ In a world where empathyย is often celebrated, we need to remember that we often forget itโs just the starting point. It is the ability to understand what other people might be going through as if we’re in their shoes. We can make them feel seen and heard but just ๐๐๐๐ก๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ช๐ฃ๐๐๐ง๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ฃ๐ alone rarely change anything.
๐ COMPASSIONย is the ๐๐๐จ๐๐ง๐ย to alleviate other people’s pain. We ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ to help other people. Yet compassion can be frustrating if we do nothing about it.
๐KINDNESS is the highest level of human interactions. It is ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ to alleviate that pain. Not just trying but delivering.
By making acts of kindness, we transform empathy and compassion into a force for good, making the world a kinder, more compassionate place.
๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐ณ๐ถ๐๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ActsofKindness(๐๐ผ๐):
โ ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ & ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐น๐ณ-๐๐๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐บ: AoK gives us a sense of purpose, boosting happiness by triggering dopamine, the brain’s “feel-good” chemical. It also enhances self-worth, allowing us to see our positive impact on others.
โ ๐๐บ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ต & ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐: AoK release oxytocin, the โlove hormone,โ which calms the amygdala, lowering stress and anxiety. This helps reduce symptoms of depression and promotes overall mental well-being.
โ ๐๐บ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ฃ๐ต๐๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ต & ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป: AoK promote cardiovascular health by lowering blood pressure. It also triggers the release of endorphins, the bodyโs natural painkillers, easing physical discomfort.
โ ๐๐ป๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ: AoK builds emotional strength and resilience, fostering a positive mindset even during challenging times.
โ ๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ฅ๐ถ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐: AoK doesnโt just affect the giver and receiver; bystanders who witness it feel inspired to act kindly themselves, creating a ripple effect throughout communities and workplaces.
โ ๐ฆ๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐ด๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐น๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฝ๐: Prosocial behaviors like kindness deepen connections and create a stronger sense of community.
Iโm inspired by the kindness of the bus driver, Jayen. What about you?